Special Friend

I remember the first time that I met Tom and Sue. Linda and I had been married that previous Summer, 1988, and Linda was a new teacher in the Watertown district. It was at a beginning of the year party at Don and Ruth’s old house. I remember that Sue made an impression on me the first time I met her and it was an impression that never changed in the nineteen years that I knew her. I could see immediately that she possessed an incredible capacity for warmth and love.

Over the years Linda and I became close friends with Tom and Sue, a relationship that we have always cherished. When Ben was in fifth grade, Linda gave him rides to our house and he would spend an hour with us, twice a week, if I am recalling correctly. During that time we became very close to Ben and we have considered him like a nephew to us. We also had the pleasure of seeing Riley grow into a fine young man.

I have always admired Tom and Sue, as as good friends and as Christian people. I remember the very special times when Linda and I (and later Sam) would get together with Tom and Sue and the family. Each time was a special occasion. I can remember taking Sam to Sue’s Kindermusic class and having a great time while Sam wandered around the classroom. I cherished Sue’s friendship and just being with her was always a special time. I remember saying to her once, before I even thought about it, “Sue, I would do anything for you.” Later, as I thought about this statement, I realized that it was just another reflection of how close I felt to Tom and Sue. I don’t think that words alone can express what knowing Sue meant to me or to any of us. We will all miss her smile and warmth and love.

--Mitch